Let’s imagine for a moment. You are a masculine guy. You’re attracted to women, you have male friends, everything is normal from the outside. But then, there’s that time of day when you’re on your own. You’re horny. You log on to a porn site. And certain fantasies begin to take hold.
1. You watch the girl on the screen sucking that huge, heavy cock, and you can’t help but wonder what it would feel like in your mouth.
2. Your own cock twitches at the thought. Maybe you go looking for some captions, or a video – something that really explores cock sucking as a fetish.
3. Soon enough, you’re shooting your load. Shooting your load at the thought of being made to suck cock.
4. You might look at the cum dripping down your shaft and wonder what it would taste like…
5. Then, finally, you come to your senses, and the realisation hits you. You just got turned on, thinking about sucking cock. And you’re left asking yourself…
The simple answer is no, of course. If you even have to ask, that should be enough to show you that you’re not secretly gay deep down. After all, you’re still turned on by girls, aren’t you? The real question is this:
Are you bisexual, or is this just a fetish?
That’s right – it’s actually very common for straight men to fantasies of sucking cock. It’s a very normal fetish for straight guys to have, and it does not make you gay.
You can think of it like just another fetish. It doesn’t make you a freak if you’re turned on by feet, or turned on by the idea of being dominated. Thinking about cock is no different, sweetie. Just thinking about cock doesn’t change anything about who you are. It doesn’t change your identity, or your orientation. It’s just a thought, and it’s just a fetish.
But if you’re not gay, how did you end up being so turned on by the idea of sucking cock? To answer that, we’ll need to dive into a little philosophy, psychology, and sociology, and by the end of it I hope you will have learned something about your sexuality, your fetishes, and maybe even your gender identity.
Strap yourself in, sissybitch.
You’ve always thought of yourself as a straight boy, right? Well, I’m not going to tell you that you’re wrong. So let’s make it clear:
I can prove it to you.
Do you think about going on romantic dates with men? Do you think about kissing men? If one of your guy-friends made a move on you, would you feel happy, or uncomfortable? You see, you can have a super-strong craving for cock inside you, but it doesn’t mean you’re attracted to guys. Just Cock.
Not men. Just Cock. Attraction to cock isn’t a sexual orientation – it’s a fetish. So let’s talk about kinks and fetishes.
A “kink” is anything you enjoy doing that other people might think is taboo. And a “fetish” is just anything specific that makes you aroused, other than thoughts of having sex. You know, you could think of people who like to look at a women’s breasts as having a ‘breast fetish’ – there are cultures in the world where it’s perfectly normal for women to wear nothing to cover their breasts, and it doesn’t send the men into a sexual craze. But when breasts are covered up, when a society makes it taboo and sexual to look at a woman’s breasts, it plants a seed in your brain. Sexual curiosity starts to grow.
The world says that you’re not allowed to be gay. You’re not supposed to even think about hard, cum-dripping cock. You’re not allowed to be feminine. You’re not allowed to dress like a slut. You’re not allowed to be a sissy. But the more the world tells you that you’re not allowed something, the more you want it. It’s inevitable, really. The stronger the taboo, the stronger the fetish.
You might think that the world is divided into Straight, Gay, and a handful of bisexual outliers. If that was true it would mean that if you even had the slightest thought about sucking cock, then you’re likely a complete, raging homosexual.
What a silly idea.
Even most bisexual men are more attracted to women than they are to men. Sexuality is a spectrum, and we’ve known this for a long time. This is a diagram first published in Alfred Kinsey’s 1948 report “Sexuality in the human male”:
Kinsey came up with a simple 7-point scale, intending to show that sexuality is fluid – and more importantly, that it can change. First, I want to show you responses from a 2015 survey of people from the UK:
The important point here is that the number of bisexual people massively outweighs the number of people who identify as exclusively gay. And less than *half* of people aged 18-24 identify as exclusively straight these days, as our society has changed to be more accepting of different sexualities.
But those men who are able to admit that they are turned on by the idea of cock – how many of them would actually be interested in having a relationship with another man? Most of them probably still identify as straight, because they know that having some fantasies of sucking cock doesn’t make you gay.
Dressing up like a girl doesn’t make you a girl, just like sucking cock doesn’t make you gay. Feeling romantically attracted to men and only men is what makes a person gay. Likewise, feeling like you are truly a girl, identifying as a girl is what would make you a girl. Otherwise, you’re just a sissy.
Being a sissy doesn’t have to be about questioning your gender identity. But it does have to be about questioning certain stereotypes. Why shouldn’t you wear makeup? Why shouldn’t you wear dresses? Why shouldn’t you act like a slut? Who’s decided all of these restrictions that “real men” have to obey?
You know what – deciding to put on a pair of lace panties was one of the bravest things you’ve ever done. – Deciding to buy yourself a dildo and practice sucking it.
– Deciding to choose a feminine name for yourself.
You’ve deliberately crossed a boundary that most men would be terrified to cross.
You might be worried about your sissy-interests making you ‘weak’ or ‘less of a real man’, or a ‘beta’ – but who is braver?
A man who refuses to ever wear ‘girly’ panties?
Or a man who does so openly?
A man afraid to be seen as feminine?
Or a man who calls himself a sissy-bitch?
You’ve had the courage to explore things that ‘Alpha’ men would wimp out of if given the opportunity. You’ve opened the door to experiences that ‘alpha’ Men would shy away from, no matter how good they feel. Can you imagine a Super-Straight, Alpha man fingering his prostate until he orgasms? Do you think he’d be brave enough to take that step? Or would he be too caught up in the idea that “I can’t do that, that would make me gay”?
You know better than that.
And because you know better, you can go even further.
You can suck every cock you find on Grindr, and it won’t make you gay.
You can meet men who know exactly how to pound your prostate and make your sissy-clit squirt, and it won’t make you gay. You can have guy after guy fuck and use you. You can have a male Master or Daddy own you. You can be a sissy bitch for life.
It Doesn’t Make You Gay.
So, what do you think, sweetie? Has this helped reassure you? Are you ready to go out there and start sucking cock like a good girl?
